silence.tempest.clarity

hi, I introduce in this post a little experience

three steps to move on, it be must understand, but this is no easy, this is so massive in deep of mind, what it means?, what is that? why you do that? many questions, one answer, to be, to make a person better in the self understanding, such pain is acceptable.. well, I'm not a evil man, maybe you dont understand, but this is true love, hurt to make a upgrade intelectual status.

step one: silence - a person who leaves a long time in silence.. need be questioned.
step two: my personal favorite step, this is tempest, storm, painfull, if your mind dont broke in this step, congratulations.
step three: clarity - new vision of all, it means look for the storm and understand the why.. the pain dont kill you, make you stronger.

a kind of theory, works with me.